Outcome Orientation

The purpose of goals is to win at whatever game you are playing. The purpose of your intentions is to enjoy playing the game.

January 8 2021

Focus on Your Intentions More Than Goals

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Goal setting is a valuable skill that helps you stay on track and get things done. They are essential for completing immediate tasks, such as clearing your office or learning a new computer skill. They can increase your energy to get things done. But goal-setting can also work against you. For example, when you set […]

January 1 2021

Our 3 Most Popular Essays of 2020!

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As we say good-bye to 2020 and welcome 2021, we want to share our 3 most popular essays of the year. Thank you for following along on the journey as we all learn how to grow and create together. To the Creator in you and may your 2021 be awesome! Layers of Protection Risky and […]

October 2 2020

TED* and Family Conversations

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Lately we have heard stories of how families are exploring together the TED* (*The Empowerment Dynamic)® book to prompt authentic and powerful conversations at home. Since the book is written in a fable format and easy to read, the lifelong lessons of learning to be a Creator are also available to younger folks. The TED* […]

When you find the courage to let go of the known and embrace the void...you can finally learn how to fly.

August 28 2020

The Trapeze Parable

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This parable was written by the late husband of a good friend of ours. How does a trapeze artist learn to pry their fingers off the familiar bar and leap to the one coming at them? Discovering their secret changed the way we now relate to the tension of life. We think it will change […]

August 21 2020

Gratitude for an Exciting New Addition!

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Over the years, readers have shared their stories with us about how they are applying TED* (*The Empowerment Dynamic)® in their lives. This week we begin an exciting new feature to our weekly blog. We are capturing these stories on video and will be sharing them with you from time to time. In the brief […]