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January 1 2021

Our 3 Most Popular Essays of 2020!

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As we say good-bye to 2020 and welcome 2021, we want to share our 3 most popular essays of the year. Thank you for following along on the journey as we all learn how to grow and create together. To the Creator in you and may your 2021 be awesome! Layers of Protection Risky and […]

October 9 2020

Brake Before Breaking

Debbie Hulbert Baby Steps, Business & The Workplace, Challenger, Choice, Communication, Creator, Creator Orientation, DDT, Dreaded Drama Triangle, Family, Leadership, Life Challenges, Making Shifts Happen, Neurobiology, Parenting, Pause Practice, Persecutor, Persecutor, Practices, Relationships, Rescuer, Rescuer, Stress, TED* @ Home, TED* @ Work, Victim, Victim Baby Steps, Challenger, change, choice, communication, Creator, DDT, Dreaded Drama Triangle, growth, learning, making shifts happen, mistakes, Pause, Pause Practice, Persecutor, relationships, Rescuer, Shift, stress, TED*, The Power of TED*, Transform Drama, Victim 0

When you hit your breaking point, you may hurt the feelings of others and may say something you regret later, making a difficult situation even worse. When you reach that moment, chances are you justify what you said or did because that is part of what happens when you reach your breaking point. It is […]

June 12 2020

Take an Intentional Pause

Debbie Hulbert Baby Steps, Business & The Workplace, Choice, Communication, Creator, David Emerald, DDT, Donna Zajonc, Dreaded Drama Triangle, Family, Inner Persecutor, Life Challenges, Making Shifts Happen, News, Pause Practice, Persecutor, Practices, Relationships, Rescuer, Rescuer, Stress, TED*, TED* @ Home, TED* @ Work, Transform Drama, Victim, Victim, World Baby Steps, change, choice, communication, Creator, David, David Emerald, DDT, Donna, donna zajonc, Donna Zajonc MCC, Dreaded Drama Triangle, learning, listening, making shifts happen, mindset, mistakes, Pause, Pause Practice, relationships, Shift, stress, The Empowerment Dynamic, Transform Drama, Victim 0

Since the beginning of the pandemic, life has changed in countless ways. You may appreciate this break to reset how you live and work. Of course, for many it is a scary and extremely difficult time of uncertainty. Several years ago, a high-tech executive coined the phrase “continuous partial attention” or the new CPA. She observed that most […]

Etch-A-Sketch on table: "As you learn and adjust to this eveolving moment, you can always draw a new picture of your life."

May 29 2020

Etch-A-Sketch Time

Debbie Hulbert Business & The Workplace, Challenger, Choice, Coach, Communication, Creator, David Emerald, Donna Zajonc, Family, Inner Persecutor, Leadership, Life Challenges, Making Shifts Happen, Outcome, Parenting, Pause Practice, Practices, Relationships, TED*, TED* @ Home, TED* @ Work, Victim Orientation, World Challenger, change, choice, Coach, communication, Creator, David Emerald, donna zajonc, growth, learning, listening, making shifts happen, mindset, mistakes, Pause, Pause Practice, Persecutor, relationships, Shift, stress, The Power of TED*, Victim Orientation 0

We are going to show our age in this essay! We both grew up as Baby Boomers, spending hours playing and creating with our Etch-A-Sketch (if you don’t know what one is, click on the link). Using two knobs, you can create pictures and designs that get etched on the screen. When you want to […]

colorful background, Take a “do over” moment when you have said something or made a mistake you want to correct. It is possible to declare: “Time out – I want to take a do-over!” and start again.

May 22 2020

You Always Get A Do-Over

Debbie Hulbert Baby Steps, Business & The Workplace, Challenger, Choice, Communication, Creator, Creator Orientation, DDT, Dreaded Drama Triangle, Family, Inner Persecutor, Leadership, Life Challenges, Making Shifts Happen, Neurobiology, Outcome, Parenting, Pause Practice, Persecutor, Persecutor, Politics & Government, Practices, Relationships, Rescuer, Rescuer, Spirituality, TED*, TED* @ Home, TED* @ Work, Victim, Victim, Victim Orientation, World Baby Steps, Challenger, change, choice, communication, Creator, DDT, Drama Triangle, Dreaded Drama Triangle, growth, inner persecutor, learning, listening, making shifts happen, mindset, mistakes, Pause, Pause Practice, Persecutor, relationships, Rescuer, Shift, stress, TED*, TED* The Empowerment Dynamic, The Empowerment Dynamic, The Power of TED*, Victim, Victim Orientation 0

Watching a young toddler play the “peek-a-boo” game is such joy. It’s the laughter and connecting that elicits the giggles each time the toddler yells; “Do it again!” Wouldn’t it be great if you could take a “do over” moment when you have said something you didn’t mean, or you make a mistake you want […]