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August 21 2020

Gratitude for an Exciting New Addition!

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Over the years, readers have shared their stories with us about how they are applying TED* (*The Empowerment Dynamic)® in their lives. This week we begin an exciting new feature to our weekly blog. We are capturing these stories on video and will be sharing them with you from time to time. In the brief […]

Dandelion seed blowing in the wind: "When you let go of the need to be right, you open yourself to learn something new"

August 14 2020

Go Against Yourself

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At the core of the TED* (*The Empowerment Dynamic)® work is love and appreciation for others. We first must see others as Creators, whether they act like it or not, before we can be in an empowering, drama-free relationship. Fear, however, is the emotion that drives all 3 roles of Victim, Rescuer, and Persecutor that […]

August 7 2020

What Can an Individual Do? (Be a “Trimtab”)

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“What can I, as an individual, do to make a difference to positively impact the huge issues we are facing?” This is a question we hear in many conversations and meetings as we all face the realities of the pandemic, social inequities, systemic racism, and global warming – to name a few. The list is long, […]

one of the most important things you can do is to acknowledge your Creator essence and to think for yourself

July 24 2020

Are You Overly Agreeable?

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Growing up, we both heard these phrases from our parents: “Be nice, Donna, and get along.” David heard “you have to learn to share,” and “don’t fight” was a favorite. Our parents did the best they could, and what many of these phrases taught us was to be overly agreeable. We humans are drawn to […]

Where do you spend most of your time in your relationship to power? Power over, Power to, Power with?

June 26 2020

What is Your Relationship to Power?

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“Power to the People” was an anthem song written by Beatle John Lennon in the early 1970s. Somewhat like today, it was a period of social unrest. But what is “power?” Merriam-Webster has two definitions that are particularly relevant to considering your relationship to power: Possession of control, authority, or influence over others; and The […]