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January 1 2021

Our 3 Most Popular Essays of 2020!

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As we say good-bye to 2020 and welcome 2021, we want to share our 3 most popular essays of the year. Thank you for following along on the journey as we all learn how to grow and create together. To the Creator in you and may your 2021 be awesome! Layers of Protection Risky and […]

One of the most empowering gifts you can give to yourself and others is that of compassion.

December 18 2020

The Gift of Compassion

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It’s the season of celebration and gift giving in many traditions around the world. Perhaps one of the most empowering gifts you can give to yourself and others is that of compassion. Compassion is a mindful and felt sense of empathy and concern for others—and for yourself. The work of Dr. Gabor Maté has taught […]

Be clear about your motivation in sharing TED* and be thoughtful about how you share it.

December 4 2020

Don’t Weaponize TED*

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Since first publishing The Power of TED* (*The Empowerment Dynamic) we have heard instances of how some people are using the framework in less than desirable ways. Here are a few examples: “After attending your workshop, I told my team they act like Victims and should stop their complaining and get their work done on […]

If you wait to begin a practice of gratitude only when things are going well, you will always be waiting.

November 20 2020

Be Grateful for Your Challengers

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Next week is Thanksgiving in the US, a holiday that is celebrated in other countries at different times of the year. The purpose of this popular holiday is to give thanks for the good in your life. But what about all the problems you are facing? Don’t they over-shadow the good? This year, 2020, has […]

Human brains hear a negative comment like it was shouted from a megaphone, while a compliment is barely a whisper.

November 13 2020

How A Creator Speaks

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Your brain believes what you tell it—both consciously and unconsciously. Your thoughts and the words you speak stimulate a chemical reaction in your nervous system to respond to what you are thinking and saying. For example, if you repeatedly tell yourself that a work project will not go well, your nervous system will produce stress […]