1st Vital Question

The purpose of goals is to win at whatever game you are playing. The purpose of your intentions is to enjoy playing the game.

January 8 2021

Focus on Your Intentions More Than Goals

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Goal setting is a valuable skill that helps you stay on track and get things done. They are essential for completing immediate tasks, such as clearing your office or learning a new computer skill. They can increase your energy to get things done. But goal-setting can also work against you. For example, when you set […]

January 1 2021

Our 3 Most Popular Essays of 2020!

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As we say good-bye to 2020 and welcome 2021, we want to share our 3 most popular essays of the year. Thank you for following along on the journey as we all learn how to grow and create together. To the Creator in you and may your 2021 be awesome! Layers of Protection Risky and […]

There is plenty of joy in the world if we are willing to pay attention

July 10 2020

Finding Joy in Troubling Times

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These are troubling times and everyone is struggling. You may be feeling a bit weary too, as are we. While there is no denying the disruptive realities in our world, we also know that what we focus on has a great deal to do with what shows up in our lives. That is the basis […]

Where do you spend most of your time in your relationship to power? Power over, Power to, Power with?

June 26 2020

What is Your Relationship to Power?

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“Power to the People” was an anthem song written by Beatle John Lennon in the early 1970s. Somewhat like today, it was a period of social unrest. But what is “power?” Merriam-Webster has two definitions that are particularly relevant to considering your relationship to power: Possession of control, authority, or influence over others; and The […]

April 3 2020

Do You Zoom In or Zoom Out?

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Before Zoom became a popular video conferencing platform, zooming-in or zooming-out referred to focusing your camera lens. If you are like most people today, though, you don’t focus your camera anymore because your phone does it automatically. Reflecting upon whether you tend to zoom-in or zoom-out is more than a metaphor: it is a useful […]