Inner Persecutor

The Persecutor-to-Challenger shift can be both powerful and enlightening

February 19 2021

Shifting from Persecutor to Challenger

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Of the three TED* (*The Empowerment Dynamic)® roles of Creator, Challenger, and Coach, we receive the most questions about the shift from the Dreaded Drama Triangle (DDT) role of Persecutor to Challenger. We humans have a strong tendency to judge others and be critical of ourselves. While being a Persecutor to others may be what […]

Transcend "cancel culture" We are all Creators

January 22 2021

Transcending “Cancel Culture”

Debbie Hulbert Challenger, Choice, Coach, Communication, Creator, Creator Essence, Creator Orientation, David Emerald, DDT, Donna Zajonc, Dreaded Drama Triangle, Inner Persecutor, Life Challenges, Making Shifts Happen, Pause Practice, Persecutor, Persecutor, Politics & Government, Relationships, Stress, Victim, Victim, World Challenger, change, choice, Coach, communication, Creator, David, David Emerald, DDT, Donna, Drama, Dreaded Drama Triangle, inner persecutor, making shifts happen, Pause, Pause Practice, Persecutor, relationships, Shift, stress, TED*, The Empowerment Dynamic, The Power of TED*, Transform Drama, Victim 0

“Cancel culture” is a term that has become popular in the last couple of years. With the recent ugly, reactive, traumatic, and drama-filled events in the US, we have noticed the phrase used more often. Wikipedia defines it this way: “Cancel culture (or call-out culture) is a modern form of ostracism in which someone is […]

The purpose of goals is to win at whatever game you are playing. The purpose of your intentions is to enjoy playing the game.

January 8 2021

Focus on Your Intentions More Than Goals

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Goal setting is a valuable skill that helps you stay on track and get things done. They are essential for completing immediate tasks, such as clearing your office or learning a new computer skill. They can increase your energy to get things done. But goal-setting can also work against you. For example, when you set […]

January 1 2021

Our 3 Most Popular Essays of 2020!

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As we say good-bye to 2020 and welcome 2021, we want to share our 3 most popular essays of the year. Thank you for following along on the journey as we all learn how to grow and create together. To the Creator in you and may your 2021 be awesome! Layers of Protection Risky and […]

Every day you have the power to positively influence the world by expressing appreciation to others.

December 11 2020

3 Levels of Appreciation

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You don’t have to look very hard these days to notice negative news around the world. It’s not just the news media or public leaders that are using harsh words toward one another. It’s also become the norm in some social media circles to pass on gossip, misinformation, and unforgiving pictures about someone they have […]