Today is February 14th – Valentine’s Day – a day in which many people share cards, flowers and sweet symbols of endearment. So, it is symbolic for us to share a recent story of David’s “healing heart.” Exactly one month ago, on January 14th, I (David) experienced a heart attack. The day before, I had arrived […]
February is celebrated around the world as the month of love. One of the most valuable ways to live in a state of love is to repair relationship drama through forgiveness. As a married couple, we have reflected upon our own challenges to forgive and have come to realize there are many complex dynamics that […]
As you read these questions, what emotions arise in you? Why are you always late for the staff meetings? Why are your monthly reports filled with client complaints? Why do you avoid helping me with the dishes? Why do you always wear that old shirt on weekends? Just writing and reading these questions stirs up […]
Do you feel uncomfortable when conflicts arise? If so, you may avoid a conflict like the plague and retreat, feeling powerless and victimized by the situation which, of course, places you in the Victim role of the Dreaded Drama Triangle (DDT). A second way to deal with conflict may be your desire to control the situation and aggress against […]
A few months ago, Donna returned from the grocery store with several bags of groceries in her car. David came out of their home to help her with the bags and she immediately declared, “Nope, I don’t need any help.” David went back into the house. Over the next few days Donna reflected upon why she rejected David’s offer […]