Choice

Ask yourself: “Do I want to add to the drama, and ‘play,’ or to relax and ‘pass’?”

January 15 2021

Pass or Play

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When we hold multi-day workshops, at the end of the first day we ask participants to “stay tuned” to their experiences that night and simply notice how the Dreaded Drama Triangle (DDT) and its roles of Victim, Persecutor, and Rescuer may show up. The next morning, we invite participants to share what they noticed. The […]

January 1 2021

Our 3 Most Popular Essays of 2020!

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As we say good-bye to 2020 and welcome 2021, we want to share our 3 most popular essays of the year. Thank you for following along on the journey as we all learn how to grow and create together. To the Creator in you and may your 2021 be awesome! Layers of Protection Risky and […]

Every day you have the power to positively influence the world by expressing appreciation to others.

December 11 2020

3 Levels of Appreciation

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You don’t have to look very hard these days to notice negative news around the world. It’s not just the news media or public leaders that are using harsh words toward one another. It’s also become the norm in some social media circles to pass on gossip, misinformation, and unforgiving pictures about someone they have […]

By accepting others and taking responsibility for your response to a situation, you are acting as a Creator.

November 27 2020

Face It—You Cannot Change Other People

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The holiday season is upon us. In normal times—which these are not—people around the world will gather with family and close friends to celebrate and have conversations around the dinner table or on video calls. Some of your conversations may include disagreements on issues of the day, long simmering family dynamics, or other forms of […]

If you wait to begin a practice of gratitude only when things are going well, you will always be waiting.

November 20 2020

Be Grateful for Your Challengers

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Next week is Thanksgiving in the US, a holiday that is celebrated in other countries at different times of the year. The purpose of this popular holiday is to give thanks for the good in your life. But what about all the problems you are facing? Don’t they over-shadow the good? This year, 2020, has […]