3 Vital Questions

January 14 2022

How to Create Anew in 2022

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Last week we encouraged you to take the time in this New Year to create from your deepest longings. This week we are excited to share valuable secrets about how to create from your longings—or create anything for that matter! Dynamic Tension is the powerful structure for creating outcomes first made popular by Robert Fritz […]

December 31 2021

3 Popular Blogs of 2021

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As we prepare to ring in the new year we want to pause and reflect back on 2021. There were many ups and downs, yet as Creators, we hopefully took the Challengers in stride and were able to grow and learn. As we say goodbye to 2021 and welcome 2022, we want to share 3 […]

Becoming more mindful does not change your outer circumstances—it changes the way you perceive your circumstances.

October 29 2021

Why So Much Interest in Mindfulness?

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Mindfulness has become popular, promoted widely in business magazines, schools, the military, and health care centers, to name just a few places. Mindfulness is based in meditation practices that are thousands of years old, so it’s hardly “new.” So, why has the interest in being mindful grown so much? One reason there is a lot […]

Learning to give feedback that is useful is a powerful part of the Challenger role in TED*.

October 15 2021

Feedback Without Blame or Judgment

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As young school children, we are taught to ask the teacher for support and receive feedback to help us learn. That feedback was often in the form of a grade that we interpreted as either good or bad. As adults, giving feedback to one another can evoke a strong defensive reaction. We know this defensive […]

When authentically optimistic, you embrace your basic goodness and the goodness of others.

October 8 2021

Toxic Positivity or Authentic Optimism

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A primary outcome for applying the 3 Vital Questions® and Power of TED* (*The Empowerment Dynamic)® frameworks is supporting you to be the best version of yourself possible. This includes being resourceful, even when life is hard. When difficult things happen, one common approach is to stay overly positive and force yourself to look on […]